Shar Jackson Refuses To See Britney's Babies

The woman that Kevin Federline left for Britney Spears has revealed she has never met her ex's new babies as she wants to ?keep her distance?.

Shar Jackson was pregnant with K-Fed?s baby when he dumped her for the millionaire popstar?but she?s not bitter.

Jackson and Federline have two children together Kaleb, 2 and Corey, 4, but although Jackson considers Spears part of her extended family she does not want to meet Sean Preston, 1 or new born Sutton Pierce.

Speaking on the Dr Keith Ablow show Jackson insisted: "I like to keep my distance."

She added that although she could handle the break up of her relationship with Federline, she couldn?t handle the meltdown of her family.

"As far as I was concerned, I was OK that the relationship ended...but the family breaking up is something painful.

"And honestly I didn't let it happen. Now in the beginning it was rough, because he was overseas, so I really didn't have much control over there.

"But when he came back home, I told him, 'Kevin, I'm not going to let you be a convenient father, when it's convenient for you.'

"If you are going to be part of these kids' lives, then you're going to be a part. If not, then you're not.??

So is he a part of their lives or not?