Has Gwyneth Paltrow Put Cameron Diaz On ‘Sex Ban’ To Help Her Settle Down? Blonde bombshell, Cameron Diaz turned 40 in August last year and is looking to pal Gwyneth Paltrow for advice on how to settle down into middle-age. Rumours have been circulating that Cameron was struggling with a bit of a mid-life crisis after her split from her boyfriend, Yankee star, Alex Rodriguez.With an alleged fling with P.Diddy and her 40th birthday behind her, the ‘Charlie’s Angels’ actress has apparently been looking at Gwyneth’s idyllic family life and wishing for the same for herself.Cameron has spoken about her ease with getting older and moving on to a new stage in life.“As I get older, I become happier – because I’m wiser, I know myself better [and] I connect to people better,” she told Access Hollywood last year.“Look, the alternative to getting older is [being dead]. I feel very fortunate to have a very full, loving, blessed life, so, I’m living it to the fullest.”According to a source for The Sun, “Gwyneth’s sorted out everything from finances to hooking her up with her trainer. She has also forced her to swear off sex for a year, saying men distract her focus.”We can see why Cameron would want her very own Chris Martin…who wouldn’t?