BEN AND JEN – Career or Drinks: Which is More Explosive to Destroy a Marriage

..but because he’s become such hot property in Hollywood, she felt neglected … so say some well-placed sources.

There are clearly 2 views on the demise of the marriage. As we first reported, some sources with a bird’s-eye view have told us Jen was fed up with Ben’s booze and blackjack habits. But then there are others who are also very familiar with the couple are saying when push came to shove, Jennifer made no mention of alcohol and gambling … her beef was that Ben wasn’t a “present husband.”

Accepting the fact that … Ben is popular as well – he’s had back-to-back film projects for several years, and spent much of his time out of town. The sources say Jen felt ignored and neglected, and there were frequent arguments between them.

Ben has been a good dad always and does everything he can for their kids and Jen’s problem was more to do with her husband and spending time with him.

As TMZ learnt, the break up was mutual and Ben realised enough was never enough for Jen.